Free Will VS Destiny A Psychics Dilemma

Free Will vs. Destiny: The Psychic's Dilemma. As a professional psychic, I am often asked fate-related questions. "When am I going to get married?" "What is my purpose in life"? "Where is my soul mate?" The reality is, these situations are mostly decided by the choices you make and the actions you take. These choices are often a product of the energy we create through our thoughts and actions. We do give out vibrations that create our realities. That energy is perceived by others within the collective unconscious, and that energy sets our path. Other people sense this energy and they react according to how it affects their energy. They make choices that affect out fates as well. It is all interconnected and complex. Here is the bottom line, simplified. Your destiny is simply your potential. It is NOT a given. Your destiny includes things that you CAN achieve if you follow a particular direction using your free will. If you choose to take another path, or take no action at all, things will turn out differently for you. A good psychic can only GUIDE you in a direction that can lead you to your optimum destiny. You have to do the real work to get there. When a psychic looks into that region beyond time and space to see where you may be heading, she is seeing strong probabilities based on the energy you have created using your free will. The choices you make put actions in motion that are leading you to a certain destination. That destination can be seen, but so can many of the actions and choices that must be made to get there. Asking a psychic to predict your future without having her tell you what you must do to get there is counter-productive. You must have a plan, you must make choices. Look at someone you know who always operated on blind faith without making plans to reach a goal. Didn't turn out too well did it? A psychic is there to help you make plans and to avoid potential snafus. Here is another strange thing: difficult things happen anyway, even though we have a good plan. Life also gives us certain lessons when we need them. Without these lessons, we would not grow. They are not always fun, they are not always pretty. The world is a difficult place at times. But, just as we are all interconnected, so are our potential fates. We must deal with these obstacles so that we may adjust our lives and actions to match and better flow with the general energy that is prevalent at that particular time. Often, a psychic can help you with this. Here is a good example. Say you have been working at the same career for many years, and suddenly the market changes and you get laid off. A lot of other people get laid off in your industry, but you continue looking for a new job in the same industry. You feel that fate and hard work got you into this industry, and you are determined to stick with it. However, no matter how hard you try, no matter how many companies you send your resume out to, you just don't get a job in that industry. Well, obviously it is time to switch to something else. The reason for the dearth of opportunities in your field is that the rest of the people who were laid off in your industry are looking for the same job that you are, and the market is saturated. Now, if you want to take control of your fate, you are going to do your research and find what other industries are hiring and decide what might fit your skills, or look into getting some job training for another career. This is taking control of your fate and looking for opportunities that might lead you toward your destiny along a somewhat different path. Or you can keep applying for the same jobs as everyone else, and become more and more despondent that you are not getting hired. Sadly, the people who are beating their heads against a wall trying to get a job in their old industry are often emailing me, asking when they are "going to get a job". Often they become angry when I tell them to look outside their field and do some research on other sectors that are hiring. Or worse, when I suggest that they try a specific industry that is new and is hiring. They seem to feel that I should see their immutable future and be able to pinpoint the particulars of their fate when they are not willing to take their destiny into their own hands. It is not only quite possible to fine-tune your destiny, but it is also possible to create an entirely new destiny! Free will is the rule. We do have probable paths that we are likely to take, and a psychic sees these paths. However, just because they are seen does not mean that they cannot be changed. Quite the contrary, once you know what path your action may lead you down, you can take actions to change it. This is what a good psychic is for, to help you make informed decisions. When a person asks me a question about the distant future, such as "What is my destiny?" I usually see multiple paths. If they ask me about the short-term future, I see possibilities based on their present course of actions. I then give them choices they can make to reach the best possible future. So, asking psychics "Who will I marry?" is basically a waste of time. Yes, I know we all want to believe that our love, one of the most important issues in life to many of us, is predestined. But ask yourself, how many relationships do we see that turn out happily ever after? Some do (thank goodness), but those take hard work. Wouldn't it be better to ask which characteristics in potential mates are most likely to work out in the long run, rather than who you will marry? Or what you could do to help make the relationship successful? The point is that, when it comes to our futures, it is much better to use a psychic to help us make better, informed decisions than put ourselves into their hands blindly and ask them to spell out our fates for us by telling us what is going to happen in the distant future. Blind faith sometimes leads to misery, while making choices based on promising probabilities can rewarding you with success and happiness. And yes, sometimes we do get lucky. It happens to me all the time, but then, I have the inside scoop:)